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Why Do Men Cheat

Why men cheat on women is an age-old question. The reasons why men cheat on women can be varied. Sometimes their reasons don’t even involve you and it’s simply an ego-based decision. Other times, reasons why men cheat can involve you and your relationship, or lack thereof.
So why do some men cheat in relationships? Almost all men know that cheating is wrong, yet many they still do it. Men will blame their reasons for cheating on their genes and their necessity to reproduce. However, aren’t we suppose to be further evolved than a chimp? Shouldn’t we be able to control our bodies through our minds and conscious decisions? Aparrently not always.

Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat

1. Because they had the option. The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.

2. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men don’t feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex any more and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There’s nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.

3. You grow apart. Maybe the two of you didn’t have as much in common as you thought. He’s met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.

4. You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something.

5. He’s fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.

6. Your sex life sucks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn’t getting enough sex to fulfill him, there is a good chance he will have an affair. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from getting boring and non-existent. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.

7. To get revenge. A man will sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on him. How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but through good old fashioned sex?

8. It’s new, different and exciting. Some men get tired of having steak for dinner every night and want to try a hamburger. The same goes for sex with a woman. That’s why men don’t necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their partners.

9. To see if they can get away with it. If a man has the attitude of “what she doesn’t know, won’t hurt her,” he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. However, with all the advancement in surveillance spy ware, getting caught has now become easier than ever.

10. Because you have allowed it in the past. If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they are more than likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead enough, you will forgive them.

Reasons why men cheat can be more complex than the above list or even be a combination of a few different reasons. Nevertheless, no reason is good enough reason to lie and be dishonest. After all, Karma can be a bitch.

7 Reasons Why I Hate Women

Mga Girls dont take it seriously. Base lang to sa karanasan ng mga kalalakihan..

1. Pag nanliligaw ka pa lang need mo magpakabaet para lang makuha loob nya. amffff… d mo maipakita totoo mo lalo na sabihin ng girl na i hate bad boys. weeeeeee… pero pagnapasagot mo na. hehehe… back 4 being bad guy ka na ulet. ganun lang un. hehehe…

2. Pagsyota mo na kelangan on time ka sa mga dates nyo. grrrrr… bawal ma late or else wala ka kiss. hahaha…

3. Syempre dapat memoryado mo lahat ng mga dates or anniversaries nyo. pati b day ng nanay nya dapat alam mo. hahahaha… kaso mahina IQ q, wala aqng pornographic memory. nyahahaha..

4. Pag ikinasal na kayo kelangan masunod lahat ng gusto nya sa handaan, sa damit na isusuot. waaaaaaaaaa… mapipilitan kang mangutang ng five six para my bonggang kasalan… weeeeeeeeeeee… itanan mo na lang da best na solusyon. hek.hek.hek

5. Pag mag asawa na kayo isusulit mo lahat ng sweldo mo… bulatlatin pa wallet mo baka my nakasipit. hahaha… ni wala matitira sau kahit pambili ng yosi. whew… isoli na kita sa nanay mo. nyahaha…

6. Paglalabahin, pamamalantsahin at paglulutuin ka pa pag araw ng linggo para daw matikman nya luto mo once a week. nyaaaaa… kumain na lang tau sa labas para walang hugasin. hehehehe…

7. Aanderin ka. Whew… sa parteng eto di kau nag iisa, kasama nyo aq. nyahahaha…

Pero ok lang un mga pare koi. kung wala din naman clang mga babae para din naman taung mga inutil. wahahaha… KAYA MABUHAY ANG MGA ANDER DE SAYA!!!

Romance Guide

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Romance Guide

Here are some tips to make ur romance successful

1. “Praise her in front of someone else. Let her hear you tell someone else how lucky you are to have this woman in your life. She may act embarrassed at the time, but she’ll love you for it.” (this very very VERY great idea is from Light Your Fire.com)

2. Fill an envelope with romantic ideas for her to reach in and pick out with her eyes closed. Ideas such as…Ask her to put on the shirt you’re wearing…Take turns feeding each other with your eyes closed…Slow dance together to a song while never taking your eyes off one another.

3. When a girl gets dressed up it is usually for her guy so tell her she looks great.

4. Guy’s its very simple,Give your girl a back massage. Tell her to lye on her stomach on the bed (make sure her back is naked). Start the massage from the base of her neck, and take your time. The hotspots to hit are below the shoulder blades, lower back, and right on the spine along the bra line. After a good 8 to 10 minute massage tell keep her eyes closed (you won’t have to tell her if you gave her a good massage). Go to the freezer and take an ice cube. Come back and but the ice cube in your mouth. Hold it buy your teeth. RUN THE ICE CUBE FROM THE BASE OF HER SPINE TO THE BOTTOM OF THER NECK. Her back will arch, and well, you no what happens after that. Trust me it works.

5. If your loved one is bilingual, learn the lyrics to one of her favorite slow jams and sing it very softly in her ear one day out of the blue– she’ll love you for it! submitted by vero

6. Give nicknames to certain body parts. Think of them together, it’s more intimate. submitted by butterfly

7. When my friends mother of his child gave birth, he had 9 dozen roses seperately delivered to her one hour a part. On the last one, he wrote that each dozen was for each month that she carried there baby.

8. Jaccuzzi suite with bubble bath, 2 glasses with sparkling grape juice, heart-shaped balloons, rose petals on the bed, happy anniversary sign (our 24th) on wall, candles everywhere, chocolate kisses, roses brought to restaurant table (one for each year of marriage), red Christmas lights, music. Well, it’s a start!

9. When your wife/girlfriend comes home and is obviously exhausted, literally pick her up and offer to carry her wherever she needs to go whether in public or in your own home.

10. Pay attention to something other than her breasts, kiss her stomach, being sure to center around her belly button, it drives her wild!

Dating Tips

1. A Sleepy Shoulder
Guys, listen. If you are at the movies or in the car with a girl and she rests her head on your shoulder, she wants you. Trust me. Start by putting your arm around her, and then wait for the perfect moment and kiss her with everything you have got!

2. Tree Surprise
If you do this right, it will end up being one of the best dates ever… First, carve a memory into a tree, example: (Tabi , Aaron 4 ever) Next, make up some destination clues that will slowly lead your love to the tree surprise. (On their car seat or locker is a good place to start) Use your imagination and put the clues in good spots. Hide away near your carving until he/she arrives to their tree surprise. They’ll never forget it! Submitted by Aaron From Rockford

3. Shivers down the spine!!
As you gently open your mouths while kissing, run your tongue along the roof of your partners mouth while at the same time, run your fingers down their spine it actually sends shivers down their spine and really gets them in the mood! enjoy! Submitted by maria From galway

4. Ordinary Date
Instead of wasting a lot of money on going to the movies just rent a movie. Order some pizza or pop some popcorn and your set. You guys can snuggle on the coach and it’s better than having the arm rest inbetween you guys. So you get to warm up to your hunny and talk as much as you want instead of being at the movies where you can’t really do anything but kiss. You get that AND MORE at home. ;)
5. Paint your lover red
For more intimate couples a fun thing to do is buy floresent body paint, set up a black light and draw on eachothers bodies. It’s really romantic, sexy and fun all at the same time.

6. Make a Tape!
Whenever your love is away and you can’t talk on the phone or hear their voice, make them a tape! Record things like your favorite memories, how/why you love them, and maybe even sing them a lullaby so they can listen to it before they go to sleep. My guy loved it, and it will be sure to melt anyone’s heart and help them think of you when you’re apart.

7. Diary
When you first start dating someone (or even if you already are) start keeping a diary. Write about the fun you have w/ the other person, and somewhere down the road read the diary together. It will bring back a lot of memories that you have probably forgotten about!

8. Magic Lake
Take your date somewhere they have never been before. Preferably somewhere it is hard for them to get to. I took mine to a place called magic lake. It is in the middle of the woods on a mountain. We parked beside the lake and slowdanced to music I had chosed earlier to set the mood. It’s a night she surely won’t forget!

9. Go Bowling!!
Okay, this may sound corny, but bowling is fun to do with someone you love! If your honey is experienced, have him/her teach you! It’s best when you go on disco night and wear funky clothes!!

10. Little Things
Sometimes the smallest things with the one you love can mean the world. try going to a park and just taking a walk around. If you find a big rock, sit down and talk, do whatever your heart pleases. I’ve done this and trust me, it’s something I will never forget.

Kissing Tips

1. Random Kisses
Something that drove my boyfriend wild was when I would gently shut his eyes with my fingers, and kiss all around his face very softly. His eyelids, or his chin, or his ear. He especially liked it when I would drag my lips gently across his cheek, in between kisses, or if I hovered above his mouth, barely letting our lips touch, but not letting him kiss me. Try this when you are facing eachother and have the time to take time in between kisses and indulge in the surely following ones.. Submitted by Melissa From Canby

2. Showing how much I love you
Grab your mate’s hands, look into their eyes and tell them you love them…. then slowly lean forward, and place a soft lucious kiss on their lips. A kiss with love backing it up all the way. This is an alternate way of saying “I Love You”. Submitted by Kyle From Marietta

3. Your a lifesaver!
Add a little flavor to your kiss by sucking on a lifesaver while kissing. It makes it much tastier for both of you and gives your kiss a little Kick! Submitted by Lisa From Sandy

4. Wave kissing…
When you go to the beach kiss when in the middle of the waves. It seems like firworks are going off around you and you have to hold on extra hard to keep a hold on eachother so the waves don’t pull you apart! Submitted by Jeannie From Fairfield

5. Little kiss
Kiss the inside of your partner’s hand. This is a little way to say i love you

6. Sweetest kiss of all
The sweetest tasting kiss is when you or your other have taken a drink of mountian dew. You really should try it! I promise! Submitted by Megarita From Florence

7. Yummy Kiss!
A kiss tastes wonderful when one of you have just eaten or taken a bite of a chocolate chip cookie! Really! Mmm….one kiss won’t be enough believe me!

8. The UpsideDown Kiss
Bet you’ve never done it before, which will make your lover very impressed. Go to the park, and hang upside down on the monkey bars with him/her. Smooching upside down is a sign of creativity, romanticism, and intelligence.

9. Rotating Romance
You and your love sit together in a rotating office chair. Once seated spin around and around while you’re giving each other kisses!

10.
Sooky Sooky!
Hey girls out there, ever wondered what to do when your man is kissing you and his tongue is creeping around in your mouth? Well I know a way to have fun and excite him. When ever you have the chance suck on his tongue! It will open his eyes for sure!

Tonight

my family

I remember the times we spend together on those drives. We had a million questions of about our lives. And when we got to know your everything and why, i wish you where here with me tonight… I remember the days we spent together were not enough and you still feel like dreaming except we always woke up never thought not having you here now it hurts so much. Tonight im falling and i cant get up. I need your loving hands to come and pick me up. And every night i miss you i cant just look up and now the stars are holding… holding you tonight…

How i really miss my wife and my kids. Living far from each other is quite hard. I just wanna go home… to be with them…